Can you actually hold your husband in everlasting 24/7 chastity? First, let’s be clear about what we imply by this. What it means, actually is 24/7 management of your husband’s orgasm; what it means colloquially although, and what individuals take it to imply is everlasting 24/7 orgasm denial.
And the reply is… sure. It is doable. What’s extra, I imagine now it is really fascinating. I am going to clarify why.
Retaining your husband in everlasting 24/7 chastity
is an act of deep love and devotion and, regardless of the outward face of it, shouldn’t be merciless, dominant behaviour or hard-hearted. Actually, when your man is near orgasm and is begging for mercy, it is extremely exhausting for the girl who loves him to say “no“; however say it she should if she needs them each to benefit from the full advantages of true, long-term strict orgasm denial.
The sensible aspect of it’s really somewhat simple, particularly in case your man, like my husband, John, is as prepared as you’re to make it occur (as an apart, males can’t be pressured into chastity and orgasm denial in opposition to their will, and pretending in any other case is the act of a simpleton, however there is no denying there are levels of eagerness – though it is my expertise you could with coaxing and compassion, train your man to embrace, need and even crave everlasting orgasm denial).
Anyway, to proceed: the sensible points merely require a safe and cozy chastity machine. John is in a Lori #2C which is safe (though he isn’t pierced) and allows him to cycle and work out and basically stay a standard life whereas sporting it 24/7. In fact it isn’t 100% safe — no machine ever could be — nevertheless it’s safe sufficient that escaping from it will be troublesome and never with out ache or danger. In different phrases it’s an exceptionally efficient deterrent to his masturbating (which is the one approach he may ever orgasm, as a result of whereas I do use Tease and Denial on him, I’m strictly in management).
However what in regards to the different points? His want and need to orgasm and your need to expertise than and to expertise him making like to you.
Let’s take the second level first: a sufficiently lifelike strap-on is the reply right here. They don’t seem to be low-cost, however a great one is, not precisely good, however is ok. You get 99% of the sensations of his making like to you “correctly” with out permitting him inside you or risking his orgasm (you may have him do that whereas he is nonetheless locked, you see).
And to reply the primary half… I used to assume everlasting orgasm denial was an excessive amount of to ask of both of you, since you’d each be lacking out.
However since John and I’ve embarked upon a full 12 months in denial for him, it is grow to be obvious that the pleasure for each of us in common tease and denial periods with no hope of orgasm till New Yr 2012 is to all intents and functions the identical because the mutual pleasure we get from his orgasm. In different phrases, there isn’t a longer a want for him to have them any extra.
The upshot of that is clear: IF a strapon is sweet sufficient for you and IF the pleasure of Tease and Denial is sufficient for you each, then everlasting 24/7 orgasm denial turns into not solely doable however really fascinating for residing the male chastity life-style. As a result of, for a person, understanding he is not going to get to orgasm correctly ever once more, nor certainly get pleasure from penetrative intercourse with you once more… but is nonetheless going to get the pleasure of creating like to you with a strapon and benefit from the Tease and Denial periods you deal with him to, it is without doubt one of the most erotic issues conceivable.